alright...dont get me wrong,i love my mom with all my heart but at times she makes it VERY difficult. im pretty sure many of you get this and will understand where i am coming from.
first off...let me fill you in on my story.
my mom has now lived with us for 9 years,we have been married for 13 1/2 years.
when we first moved to utah and people found out my mom was living with us,they would say "oh how nice that must be...you have a live in babysitter"...um no we don't.
now that she has been with us for so long and people know she does not pay anything to live in our house they say "oh that must be hard,i cant imagine my mom living with me that long"...do you think???
never in a million years would we have said sure come stay with us if we would have had a clue it would be forever!!! our house is a little over 1700 square feet and we NEVER get to watch t.v. in our t.v. room because when she is home that is where she camps out.
i feel like i have to ask permission to do anything in my own home and whats worse is we have to be quiet friday thru sunday because she works nites at Primary Childrens Hospital and has to sleep during the day...IT SUCKS BIG TIME!!!
ok,you may be thinking wow brandy is sure selfish...no i am honest.
you dont have to tiptoe around your own house not being able to do whatever you want whenever you want,you dont have to make sure you include your mom in everyday activities so you dont have to listen to it later or get her panties all twisted...im sorry but it really is a nitemare and i dont wish it on anyone.
i am 33 years old with a family of my own and we want no we need to be alone so we can do our own thing with no outside comments that really annoy the living crap out of me.
ahh...that felt fabulous!!! i am good now ;>)
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